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‎”THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. it may save a life.) Reblog this!
  It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such asituation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world. THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG…FYI - Through a rapist’s eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.6] Number three is public restrooms.7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.———————————————————————————————————————————-POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.
 2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow andarmpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told ourinstructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without usingmuch pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feellittle silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.——————————————————————————————————————————-FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some, where you will go “hmm I must remember that” After reading forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/orpurse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE. 
5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may behiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.) 
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.  
Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.If u have a heart or compassion reblog this post.‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.
 REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOWATLEAST PEOPLES WILL KNOW WATS GOIN IN THIS WORLD.So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.I hope you all will Reblog. Lets See how many of you really care for this. 

DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT NOT REBLOGGING THIS! IT COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.

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somepinkfluffy-dinosaur:

‎”THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. it may save a life.) Reblog this!

  
It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such a
situation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world. THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG…

FYI - Through a rapist’s eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:



1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.
They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

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POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:


1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:
can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

 
2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would 
not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and
armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our
instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using
much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel
little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

——————————————————————————————————————————-

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some, where you will go “hmm I must remember that” After reading forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.


1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or
purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.
 

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be
hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .
b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
 

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
  

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.


If u have a heart or compassion reblog this post.
‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

 
REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW
ATLEAST PEOPLES WILL KNOW WATS GOIN IN THIS WORLD.
So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.
I hope you all will Reblog. Lets See how many of you really care for this.

DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT NOT REBLOGGING THIS! IT COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.

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"Image Credit: Carol Rossetti

When Brazilian graphic designer Carol Rossetti began posting colorful illustrations of women and their stories to Facebook, she had no idea how popular they would become. 

Thousands of shares throughout the world later, the appeal of Rosetti’s work is clear. Much like the street art phenomenon Stop Telling Women To Smile, Rossetti’s empowering images are the kind you want to post on every street corner, as both a reminder and affirmation of women’s bodily autonomy. 

"It has always bothered me, the world’s attempts to control women’s bodies, behavior and identities," Rossetti told Mic via email. "It’s a kind of oppression so deeply entangled in our culture that most people don’t even see it’s there, and how cruel it can be."

Rossetti’s illustrations touch upon an impressive range of intersectional topics, including LGBTQ identity, body image, ageism, racism, sexism and ableism. Some characters are based on the experiences of friends or her own life, while others draw inspiration from the stories many women have shared across the Internet. 

"I see those situations I portray every day," she wrote. "I lived some of them myself."

Despite quickly garnering thousands of enthusiastic comments and shares on Facebook, the project started as something personal — so personal, in fact, that Rossetti is still figuring out what to call it. For now, the images reside in albums simply titled “WOMEN in english!" or "Mujeres en español!" which is fitting: Rossetti’s illustrations encompass a vast set of experiences that together create a powerful picture of both women’s identity and oppression.

One of the most interesting aspects of the project is the way it has struck such a global chord. Rossetti originally wrote the text of the illustrations in Portuguese, and then worked with an Australian woman to translate them to English. A group of Israeli feminists also took it upon themselves to create versions of the illustrations in Hebrew. Now, more people have reached out to Rossetti through Facebook and offered to translate her work into even more languages. Next on the docket? Spanish, Russian, German and Lithuanian.

It’s an inspiring show of global solidarity, but the message of Rossetti’s art is clear in any language. Above all, her images celebrate being true to oneself, respecting others and questioning what society tells us is acceptable or beautiful.

"I can’t change the world by myself," Rossetti said. "But I’d love to know that my work made people review their privileges and be more open to understanding and respecting one another."

From the site: All images courtesy Carol Rossetti and used with permission. You can find more illustrations, as well as more languages, on her Facebook page.

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Let the message v wash over you. ..
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Ok. Please resume your Tumblr titillation. :)

This is just beautiful.  

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My sister wanted a message, and her portrait painted on her wall, so her wish was my command :P, here it is finished. 

My sister wanted a message, and her portrait painted on her wall, so her wish was my command :P, here it is finished. 

I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I AM DOING!  No.6 Drawing. Let’s have some fun. Design a character from this character generator. (created by PreservedCucumbers) 30 Day Art Challenge
I have never been good at cartoons, except when i was 10 and copied a lot of sailor moon comics, but now, i still can’t, had fun, got a little frustrated, but in the end here is my attempt. :)

I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I AM DOING!  No.6 Drawing. Let’s have some fun. Design a character from this character generator. (created by PreservedCucumbers) 30 Day Art Challenge

I have never been good at cartoons, except when i was 10 and copied a lot of sailor moon comics, but now, i still can’t, had fun, got a little frustrated, but in the end here is my attempt. :)

30 Day Art Challenge No.5 Draw more figures. Quick gestures and silhouettes. x20, with atleast 10 different body shapes
Thought i wouldn’t make it cause of work, but my meeting got re-scheduled and i had time enough for Drawing No.5, it was  a lot of fun drawing all those different types of bodies, I drew as fast as i could with longer strokes, no detail. Frankly i would have taken a lot more time with these before i started the challenge, i can see results, not that i care much in time, more than the quality, but yeah.

30 Day Art Challenge No.5 Draw more figures. Quick gestures and silhouettes. x20, with atleast 10 different body shapes

Thought i wouldn’t make it cause of work, but my meeting got re-scheduled and i had time enough for Drawing No.5, it was  a lot of fun drawing all those different types of bodies, I drew as fast as i could with longer strokes, no detail. Frankly i would have taken a lot more time with these before i started the challenge, i can see results, not that i care much in time, more than the quality, but yeah.

No.4  Draw a part of the human anatomy you have trouble with. x20, with atleast 5 being skeletal/musculature studies. of the  30 Day Art Challenge. 
Well i was supposed to post this like three days ago, i just finished it, i had some stuff to deal with, but i drew everyday all the same, so i don’t feel so bad about it. I found that it is very hard to find real pictures of muscles to take reference of, so i had to go with the digital ones, or from books, i know that there should be a webpage that could have helped me, i just didn’t happen to stumble upon it, and the skeleton ones were basically the same position, so i used what i could find, either way i loved drawing all of it.
Yeah i have some trouble drawing everything the same size, i hate to draw small, and yet i can bring my brain to make it larger, the small ones are actually that size, the big ones as well, i try to make them smaller, and i end up making this ↑ it makes me laugh when i see the tiny ones next to that big ass ones, oh well. (◠‿◠) Practice makes perfect. Feeling good :3

Debería de haber subido esto hace tres días, por cosas de la vida, osea no se pudo, de hecho lo acabo de terminar, pero eso si, dibuje todos los días, esta cabrón encontrar imágenes reales de los músculos específicamente de los pies, seguro hay una pagina, pero no la encontré, bueno aun así me encanto el proceso. Si, tengo problemas con los tamaños, me caga dibujar en diminuto, pero ese era el tamaño, al igual las grandes, me da risa los pies chiquitos a lado de los grandote, aun así me siento muy bien con esto.  

No.4  Draw a part of the human anatomy you have trouble with. x20, with atleast 5 being skeletal/musculature studies. of the  30 Day Art Challenge

Well i was supposed to post this like three days ago, i just finished it, i had some stuff to deal with, but i drew everyday all the same, so i don’t feel so bad about it. I found that it is very hard to find real pictures of muscles to take reference of, so i had to go with the digital ones, or from books, i know that there should be a webpage that could have helped me, i just didn’t happen to stumble upon it, and the skeleton ones were basically the same position, so i used what i could find, either way i loved drawing all of it.

Yeah i have some trouble drawing everything the same size, i hate to draw small, and yet i can bring my brain to make it larger, the small ones are actually that size, the big ones as well, i try to make them smaller, and i end up making this ↑ it makes me laugh when i see the tiny ones next to that big ass ones, oh well. (◠‿◠) Practice makes perfect. Feeling good :3

Debería de haber subido esto hace tres días, por cosas de la vida, osea no se pudo, de hecho lo acabo de terminar, pero eso si, dibuje todos los días, esta cabrón encontrar imágenes reales de los músculos específicamente de los pies, seguro hay una pagina, pero no la encontré, bueno aun así me encanto el proceso. Si, tengo problemas con los tamaños, me caga dibujar en diminuto, pero ese era el tamaño, al igual las grandes, me da risa los pies chiquitos a lado de los grandote, aun así me siento muy bien con esto.  

Well going on, No.3  Draw a figure that is in action, of the  30 Day Art Challenge  with the help of ESPN Body issue Loved this pic, the body is beautiful, although i still gave it some detail, oh well.
Continuando con el dibujo No.3 Dibuja una figura en accion, del Reto de 30 dias de arte. Me encanto la fotografia, ese cuerpo es hermoso, aunque todavia le tengo que bajar un poco mas al detalle, pos ya que.

Well going on, No.3  Draw a figure that is in action, of the  30 Day Art Challenge  with the help of ESPN Body issue Loved this pic, the body is beautiful, although i still gave it some detail, oh well.

Continuando con el dibujo No.3 Dibuja una figura en accion, del Reto de 30 dias de arte. Me encanto la fotografia, ese cuerpo es hermoso, aunque todavia le tengo que bajar un poco mas al detalle, pos ya que.

OK so, here is my No.2  Draw a figure using a reference, of the  30 Day Art Challenge  with the help of Amazing male nudes I know it’s got some detail, still working on simple strokes. Now i can go back to reading my book. :)
No. 2 Dibuja una figura usando una referencia, Uhm bueno creo que me excedi un poco con el detalle, use como referencia  Amazing male nudes . Ahora puedo continuar leyendo mi libro. :)

OK so, here is my No.2  Draw a figure using a reference, of the  30 Day Art Challenge  with the help of Amazing male nudes I know it’s got some detail, still working on simple strokes. Now i can go back to reading my book. :)

No. 2 Dibuja una figura usando una referencia, Uhm bueno creo que me excedi un poco con el detalle, use como referencia  Amazing male nudes . Ahora puedo continuar leyendo mi libro. :)

No he dibujado como solía hacerlo antes, y eso no puede ser, como puedo mejorar si no practico, así que haré el reto de 30 días de dibujo, me encanto la lista, así que aquí vamos: No. 1 Autorretrato.
I haven’t been drawing like i used to, and that is a no no, how can i improve if I don’t practice,  So I am doing the 30 Day Art Challenge I loved the list so here goes: No.1 Self-portrait
My name is Karla.
Love cats, music, sleeping (more than i’d like to admit) and of course drawing, painting, art.

No he dibujado como solía hacerlo antes, y eso no puede ser, como puedo mejorar si no practico, así que haré el reto de 30 días de dibujo, me encanto la lista, así que aquí vamos: No. 1 Autorretrato.

I haven’t been drawing like i used to, and that is a no no, how can i improve if I don’t practice,  So I am doing the 30 Day Art Challenge I loved the list so here goes: No.1 Self-portrait

My name is Karla.

Love cats, music, sleeping (more than i’d like to admit) and of course drawing, painting, art.

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